Title: Making Dad Happy

Scripture Read: Proverbs 10

Key Verse: “A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish son grief to his mother.” Proverbs 10:1

Observations:

The writer begins this section with a universally known fact, kids wants their parents to be happy with them.  Approval is so important to a child growing up and for that matter if you are honest with yourself, as you become and adult.  I know my children want me to approve of them and I want my Dad to be proud of me.  There is a motivation that is implied here.  Make dad happy, be wise.  Don’t disappoint mom, turn to the ways of wisdom. He continues his themes of hard work, leaving a legacy, measured words, and listening intently to become wise.

Applications:

An appropriate question before taking action in a critical situation for me would be, what would mom think of this?  What would dad think of this decision?  I don’t usually think of that when I am in a critical situation, but I have on occasion.  I remember being in high school and wanting my dad to be there when I ran a race.  I remember him screaming from the stands with an almost embarrassing intensity.  Why did he do this?  He supported what I was doing.  He believed in my training.  When I graduated from Marine Corps boot camp, when I completed Bible College, when I completed my seminary degree, and now every time I preach a message.  He is always there showing his approval.  As a matter of fact, I can’t recall a criticism or harsh word from my dad in over 10 years.  One thing I know, my Dad is proud of me and I desire his approval.

The same is true of Jesus in my life.  I need to look for his approval and “well done” first.  I need to examine my motivations in everything as I help plant this church.  What would make Jesus most pleased with this coming weekend at our new theater church?  Would Jesus smile if he saw our leadership team tonight.  Would Jesus be thrilled at the new church 217church is becoming?  Would he be pleased with the worship?  Would he give approval to the way I am leading our staff?  This week I will live with these questions and live for His approval.

Prayer:

Lord, as I lead this week, help me to remember who I am seeking approval from, not the world, not any man, but you, my savior

Burning Question:

Who do you seek approval most from in your life?